Me Her And Her Mood Swings !

      mood swing : an abrupt and unaccountable change of mood.

      noun

      plural noun: mood swings

      

                        What you do, when your girlfriend have mood swings ? No one really knows ! Only thing you can do is hope it ends soon or you better try to be in good terms with her or as I do if she request something then I try to do it or best leave it at her she'll figure it out ! Vaibhavi and I had an argument over small issue of whether I need a change in my behaviour or not cause I use to get angry quickly and would blast on her and after I cool down she use to do the same!

                         I remember, it was friday night for a guy who is away from home staying with his elder brother, it's party time! In pune, my brother is well known in his friend circle to host the house party ! And well it so happened most of his friends loved house party! That friday my brother hosted a party with ten of his friend with all food, booze and hooka, So for them it was just a party for me it was not just a party it was like a pre defined celebration for what was about to happen to me !

                           Same day in the morning after gym I went to meet vaibhavi. She called me earlier in the morning before I hit the gym,

"Listen meet me after you are done with gym near my college !"

"Ok ! Any problem "

"I got a news...... !" She was excited and sounded like something has happened ! 

"What the fuck how can it happen are you serious ?" Imagine the best what your mind can!

"Dont get thoughts idiot...! Nothing like what you think duffer for that you need too....."I interrupted her cause I felt lil shy ! Laugh all you want......!  

"Ya I got the rest chill...! What is the news you so excited about then ?" 

"Meet me I'll explain you there complete your workout fast kaddu !"

"As you say byee !"

                          Never thought this was the beginning of her mood swings pattern ! First she gets excited! So as decided after gym, riding in the traffic at 11 a.m. with the sun's scorching heat I reached at the parking of her college, while waiting for her I just smelled myself and just found out I stinking with my sweat as I forgot to take shower before I left gym and all the thoughts started coming in my mind 

'What she'll think ?' 'Will she notice the smell ?' ' Will she shout and give lecture about personal hygiene? casue she love clean !'

                         While all the extra thoughts in my mind it's been 10 min, she is late..! Damn those girls they make you wait ! As I was about to call her Aarti saw me and came,

"Hi..!"

"Sakal sakal ky yevda zala, girlfriend zali te tuzi ajun ky karchi garaj nahi !" And started laughing !

"Tinech bolavla mala , She wanted to tell something she was excited !"

"Are you sure? Cause I called her and she is already in the lectures !" 

"WTF?"

"Ya ..! Don't tell her I said you that !"

She calls me, Ask me to meet up before college and now she is in lecture ! What's wrong with her ! And there goes my mind just busted into anger and called her, she rejected the call. What was that whats wrong with her ?

Stage two of her mood swings, sudden change of mood actually that's what mood swings is all about right ! 

Received a text from her saying,

"Maza mood change zala I wanted to attain 1st lecture mag bheten tula Till then wait outside !"

Already angry now she just pissed me off..! Like wait out for an hour without shower in the heat ! I replied 

" Fuck you what's wrong with you !"

She replied 

"It's mood swings and mind your words I can also use, take it or leave it !"

And this is how the argument started ! 

Stage three: She loves me ..!

Fight was too long and I dont know why are we fighting like she called me! made me wait and I'm saying sorry..! 

Ya..! it usually ends like that with everyone !

After that text I left, went home got myself a nice cold shower and came out to see , multiple missed calls ! And multiple text ,

Text one:

"I fucking hate you ! You broke my heart !" I was like bc ye ky tha ? what the fuck bc relation chalu nahi huva sala I broke your heart ? Thinking, I just left with anger and a goodbye text this what happened !

Text Two:

"Why did you leave without telling me ? I just bunked all my lectures for you ! Do you know how important it was for me ! " Wait what! within a minute she changed, she was cool I guess ! You might think I'm making all this up but trust me, get your self a crazy loving girlfriend you'll come to know the facts..!

Text Three:

"How can you use the word fuck with me and raise you fucking voice, even my dad did not do it who the fuck you are !" Angry suddenly, I was like bhen tera problem ky hai!

Text Four and rest:

"Sorry I'm kind of irritated, please understand me, sorry for all that I need you please come ASAP, Love you !"

Next One:

"Reply tar de bc bhav ky khato !" Like seriously dude, you come to know on whatsapp from ticks delivered or not, read or not !

"Love you na kaddu come na fast !" Ya sounds cheeky well I know that !

Called her as fast I could before she does the break up !

"Where are you ?"

"Near coffee shop waiting, why you left ?"

"If I say anything, you won't listen and you'll do what you want !"

"What you mean by that I'm not what you assume ok !"

"Chill give me 10 minutes will be there !"

"Come fast and bring lots of chocolates and drop me home please !"

"What happen ?"

"Stop wasting your time I'll explain you once you here ! You won't understand it ! It hurts !"

"Wait be calm be there in 10 !"

"Love you come fast !"

                

                  Ok guys well girls are shy they don't say things quick you need to see all the signs and things and well for them it's not easy! But girls sometimes for us boys getting your sign is also not that easy !

                  Ok so first I went to buy some chocolates especially her favorite one toblerone ! And went to meet her ,

"Hi ..!" 

Just I was about to ask what is going on, She hugged me tightly and tears rolled out of her eyes she was tring her best not to cry! I hugged her back, kissed her on forehead, she leaned on my shoulder, still trying her best not to hit those tears on my shoulder ! I took my hand up to her head rolled down her hair started playing with her hair and asked her,

"What happen love ?"

Her voice was so deep it had pain, happiness and love at the same time !

"I need you the most now ! " 

"Ya I'm here only !what happened ? Let me know na how can I help without knowing the issue !"

"Just understand na !"

"Still not getting it no clue !"

She smile and said ,

"Give me my chocolate I ll tell you !" 

               

             She was still leaning on my shoulder, I was patting her on head while she was smiling and happy to be with me ! This was the first time I was experiencing something like this ! Never before I had seen such thing ! It was emotion, It was pure love, that hug of her felt like she'd never let me go ! I gave her the chocolate she took it holded my left hand and my right hand went toward her eyes to wipe those tears ! It was a emotion which came without thinking! This is called love I guess..! We went to coffee shop and she said ,

"Sorry but you need to handle this for rest of your life chalel na ?"

"I won't mind but let me know what I need to handle ?"

"Me and my mood swings ! Kaddu it's that time of the month you know !"

"Wow sorry don't know what to say ! You could have told me na ! "

"Duffer I don't know when it will happen, just I know it'll happen in between these days not a exact date !"

"Damn ...! It's complicated ! "

"Ho..! And better get ready to stack up chocolate in house and your love cause I'll need it a lot !"

"As you wish to jasa bolshil tasa !"

"And you know what, next week we need to do a assignment need to do a site visit and I want to go Mumbai for that !" Her eyes, they were magical saying something like 'OM BHAT SWAHA !' shit like you listen to me !

"Sounds Fun !'

"Ya with you It will be more fun !"

"What ? "

     The Good news in the morning she wanted to give was, we get to spend whole day roaming in Mumbai !

Well that's a different story for next time !

To be continued ......!

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